Quotes of note
Jaclyn Friedman, Author
Trying something in bed and not liking it isn't a failure - it's one of the best ways to learn what you DO like. As long as you and your bed buddy are genuinely game to try something (and are safe about it, duh), experimenting can be one of the best things about sex. Acting like you know everything already is a lot less fun than admitting you've got a lot to learn about yourself and your partner, then enjoying the process of figuring it out.
Trying something in bed and not liking it isn't a failure - it's one of the best ways to learn what you DO like. As long as you and your bed buddy are genuinely game to try something (and are safe about it, duh), experimenting can be one of the best things about sex. Acting like you know everything already is a lot less fun than admitting you've got a lot to learn about yourself and your partner, then enjoying the process of figuring it out.
il y a 12 ans
When you're with a guy, and things are getting hot and heavy, pause and ask him to slowly masturbate for you. Don't laugh, and don't let him laugh; just pay attention and start to tell him what you think about what he's doing, or touch yourself too. Even if this just goes on for a minute, he'll enjoy being the center of attention, and it forces you to slow down, revel in being a voyeur, and see how he likes to be touched, before you move on to touching him yourself!